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THE ONLY PERSON YOU CAN TRULY CHANGE IS YOURSELF...

THE ONLY PERSON YOU CAN TRULY CHANGE IS YOURSELF.  GOD HAS CREATED YOU A GOOD WORK IN PROGRESS!

Be confident. God created a good work in you and He will continue to work on your behalf - Phil. 1:6.

   

INTRINSIC MOTIVATION EQUALS GOD ORDAINED CHANGE


By Synthia Esther


November 29, 2016.  Updated: May 8, 2024.



While we all sin and come short of the glory of God,  we alone are accountable before God for the choices we make in life (Romans 3:23).   If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.  If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.  If we say we have not sinned, we make Him a liar, and His word is not in us (1 John 8-10).  


Your  desire to change your wayward ways is not real unless "YOU DESIRE TO CHANGE THAT WHICH SEEKS TO CONTROL YOU!" - (John 10:10).    Being doers of God's word, not inactive hearers brings forth abundant  life blessings from God.  For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like the person who looks intently at their natural face in a mirror.   Seeing their self, they then go away and at once forget what they are like.  Always bearing fleeting sentiments of faith that do not last.   But the one who looks into the perfect law, the law  of liberty, and perseveres, being no hearer who forgets but a doer who acts, they will be  blessed in their  doing (James 1:22-25).   



Intrinsic motivation equals real change in an individual's wants and desires  because it is based on internal rewards rather than external, self centered consequences (Colossians 3:10).  A promise  to stop an ill regarded, addictive sin behavior to a mate based on their decision to "stay with you or  leave you",  will not  equal  an intrinsic personal desire to change.    Money, rewards, sex, drugs, and any and all self-gratification motivations, will not satisfy lost soul longings.  Only the love of God can heal a broken heart (John 4:14; 7:38).   



Jesus Christ is the Spirit of Prophecy -  1 Timothy 3:16: And without controversy great is the a mystery of godliness, God manifested in the flesh, Justified in the Spirit, Seen by angels, Preached among the Gentiles, Believed on in the world, Received up in glory.We, as born again children of the Most High God, Jesus Christ  our Lord, have all the power we need to will and do according to our  Holy Father's word, will, and ways, for the Holy Spirit of God lives  within us.



Philippians 4:13, "I can do all things through Christ  who strengthens me", is very true!  God goes with us, before us, lives within us, and by and through the Holy Spirit's power, we can and  do change to become more like Him (Galatians 2:20).   God never forces His will upon us.  It really is as simple as saying yes to God, and no to self.  Choose this day to love and serve God, as  His salvation plan taken by faith is the first step towards  developing the intrinsic motivation He alone can provide (John 3:16; Joshua 24:15).   For only when we truly  desire to please God, can real abundant Zoe life changes begin to manifest in accordance with His Holy will.

00"For the Kingdom of God is not a matter of talk but of power. What do you prefer? Shall I come to you with a whip, or in love and with a gentle spirit?" - 1st Corinthians 4:20-21.

  KINKY SEX WON'T KEEP A MAN


By Synthia Esther
June 10, 2015-Update: July 28, 2021

News Sources: Wikipedia, New York Times, Youtube documentary "Tabloid" movie clip, retrieved 6/8/2015.

Joyce  McKinney,  was an attractive, 36-24-38, American blond (former 1973  Miss Wyoming),  who practiced S&M for extra income providing "Your  Fantasy Is My Specialty" sex for clients.  She met and clicked with a  young man named Kirk Anderson, and felt their "chemistry" attraction was  a force to be reckoned with.  All of a sudden her love interest  vanished.  Yet her dreamy obsession with Kirk Anderson, who was a Mormon  missionary,  did not subside.  She found out he was in England, and  went to find her man. 


 There Anderson was, on the steps of a Mormon  Church, when she kidnapped and took him hostage for three days at a  cottage  where it is said she blind folded, tied, and then shackled him  to a bed, and raped him. 

A legal rape case ensued, which is  often referred to in various media as the, "Sex in Chains Case".   Tabloid news worthy spew made national headlines, and Errol Morris even  made a documentary he titled "Tabloid"  about the whole affair (youtube  shows a clip).  McKinney claims Anderson left with her on his own  accord.  Therefore citing mutual consent.  


 One might logically  conclude, if Anderson was in such rape duress how could he have had sex  with McKinney?  However, the real question to this rather strange  S&M, Dominatrix, Master and slave, case has more to do with  McKinney's flawed mental and psychological constructs. 

McKinney  thought great kinky sex would convert, and/or convince, a very  religious man, to leave the faith and fall in love with her.  Often  working in the sex industry, you develop what the Bible calls, "a blind  mind" stupor (John 9:39; 2 Corinthians 4:4; Romans 11:8). 


The moral to this  story in my opinion being, "Kinky Sex Won't Keep A Man".  Although many  in the sex industry make a buck in striving to convince most of society  to think otherwise, there is way more going on in the bonds of love and  sex than meets the eye! 

What's love got to do with sexual  lust?  Absolutely nothing!  When sex becomes your secret method of  attraction, you will lose every time.  Sexual cravings are not the same  as having a sexual appetite.  Cravings control you,  forever desiring to  be feed, they escalate leaving you never satisfied (James 1:14-15). 

BIBLICAL SCRIPTURES -  SEX AND BONDING:

Walk  by the spirit, and you will not desire to fulfill the lust of the flesh  (Gal. 5:16).  Whoever sow to the flesh reaps destruction, those  who sow to the spirit have eternal life (Gal. 6:8).  It is God's  will that we live a life of sanctification, and learn to control our  flesh (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5).  We are to put to death our earthly  desires, sexual immorality, lusts, impurity and evil desires (Col.  3:5).  Lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes, and the pride of life come  not from our Holy Father, but from our own selfish, self-centered,  wayward desires (1 John 2:16).  


When we flee the desires of  our youth and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, we come  before God with a pure heart (2 Timothy 2:22).  We are assured that God  hears the prayers of the righteous (James 5:16).  Remembering, the mind  governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the spirit  brings life and peace (Romans 8:6).



ADDITIONAL SCRIPTURE REFERENCES:


2nd  Peter 2:4-10, "For if God did not spare angels when they sinned, but  sent them to hell, putting them into gloomy dungeons to be held for  judgment;  (5) if He did not spare the ancient world when He brought the  flood on its ungodly people, but protected Noah, a preacher of  righteousness, and seven others;  (6) if He condemned the cities of  Sodom and Gomorrah by burning them to ashes, and made them an example of  what is going to happen to the ungodly;  (7) and if He rescued Lot, a  righteous man, who was distressed by the filthy lives of lawless men   (8) for that rightesous man, living among them day after day, was  tormented in his righteous soul by the lawless deeds he saw and heard -   (9) if this is so, then the Lord knows how to rescue godly men from  trials and to hold the unrighteous for the day of judgment, while  continuing their punishment.  (10) This is especially true of those who  follow the corrupt desire of the sinful nature and despise authority.


2nd Peter 2:19, "They promise them freedom, while they  themselves are "slaves" of depravity - for a man is a "slave" to what  ever has mastered him."


James 1:13-15, "When tempted, no one should say, "God  is tempting me."  For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt  anyone;  (14) but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he  is dragged away and enticed.  (15) Then, after desire has conceived, it  gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full grown, gives birth to  death.


Ephesians 5:11-12, "Have nothing to do with the  fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.  (12) For it is  shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret.".   


2nd  Peter 2:4-10, "For if God did not spare angels when they sinned, but  sent them to hell, putting them into gloomy dungeons to be held for  judgment;  (5) if He did not spare the ancient world when He brought the  flood on its ungodly people, but protected Noah, a preacher of  righteousness, and seven others;  (6) if He condemned the cities of  Sodom and Gomorrah by burning them to ashes, and made them an example of  what is going to happen to the ungodly;  (7) and if He rescued Lot, a  righteous man, who was distressed by the filthy lives of lawless men   (8) for that righteous man, living among them day after day, was  tormented in his righteous soul by the lawless deeds he saw and heard -   (9) if this is so, then the Lord knows how to rescue godly men from  trials and to hold the unrighteous for the day of judgment, while  continuing their punishment.  (10) This is especially true of those who  follow the corrupt desire of the sinful nature and despise authority.


2nd Peter 2:19, "They promise them freedom, while they  themselves are "slaves" of depravity - for a man is a "slave" to what  ever has mastered him."


James 1:13-15, "When tempted, no one should say, "God  is tempting me."  For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt  anyone;  (14) but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he  is dragged away and enticed.  (15) Then, after desire has conceived, it  gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full grown, gives birth to  death.


Ephesians 5:11-12, "Have nothing to do with the  fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.  (12) For it is  shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret."



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Be at peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world - John 16:33.

 

YOU WILL FLOURISH LIKE GRASS

Scripture Reference:

ISAIAH 66:13-14   

By Synthia Esther


Despair  had overcome General Robbie Risner's life while living in his tiny cell  as a prisoner of war.   He was in a dismal place.  Dark thoughts ever  consumed him.  Risner lived in his small cell shell of existence for 7  long years.  He explained, "If you could have squeezed the feeling out  of the word despair, it would have come out lead-colored, dingy and  dirty."  


 How would he survive?  How would he cope?  The walls around  him seem to close in daily.  With his head bowed in sorrow he noticed a  floor drain, pried the cover off and lowered his head into the opening.There it was, a  solitary blade of grass, the only life he could see, the only bright  color in his lonely existence.   This blade of grass he proclaimed, was  like a blood transfusion of hope for the soul.   


Risner, with a "renewed  mindset," began each day in prayer, lying on the floor with his head  down the vent, focused on that single blade of grass.  He saw the beauty  of God's workmanship, the value of God's life force and plan.  This God  sent gift of life provided a ray of hope, during a time of great  turmoil.


Risner's  focus had changed his mind.  Sound advice for those who struggle with  sexual temptation, as you have less than thirty seconds to change your  focus, defeating the thought that could otherwise hold your mind  captive.  When such thoughts besiege you think of the visual of Jesus  Christ on the cross of Calvary.  Focus on his shed blood that purchased  your salvation's plan, redemption from sin. 

* Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be  transformed by the "renewing" of your mind.  Then you will be able to  test and approve what God's will is - His good, pleasing and perfect  will. - Romans 12:2    Set your minds on things above, not on earthly  things. - Colossians 3:2 

* Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature:  sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is  idolatry.  Because of these, the wrath of God is coming.  You used to  walk in these ways, in the life you once lived.  But now you must rid  yourselves of all such things ... - Colossians 3:5-8   Devote yourselves  to prayer, being watchful and thankful. - Colossians 4:2


* No  discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful.  Later on, however,  it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have  been trained by it. - Hebrews 12:11

* Do not love the world or anything in the world.  If anyone loves the  world, the love of the Father is not in him.  For everything in the  world - the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and the  boasting of what he has and does - comes not from the Father but from  the world.  The world and its desires pass away, but the man who does  the will of God lives forever. - 1st John 2:15-17. 



STAND FIRM IN YOUR FAITH SO THAT NO WEAPON FORGED AGAINST YOU WILL PREVAIL. - ISAIAH  54:17  

You will be a crown of splendor in the Lord's hand, a royal diadem in the hand of your God. - Isaiah 62:3   Remember, "You can do everything through Him who gives you strength. - Philippians 4:13   

  

As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you.  When you see this, your heart will rejoice and you will flourish like grass; the hand of the Lord will be made known to His servants, but His fury will be shown to His foes. - Isaiah 66:13-14


Be still and know that I am God... - Psalm 46:10

DON'T LET THE DECEPTION OF SIN BLIND  YOU FROM SEEING AND KNOWING THE TRUTH.  JESUS CHRIST IS OUR LORD,  SAVIOR, FRIEND, UPON WHOM WE CAN DEPEND!  SEEK HIM, TRUST IN HIM, CLAIM  VICTORY IN HIM TO HELP YOU FIGHT ANY AND ALL BATTLES SATAN MAY SEND YOUR  WAY.



OUR HOPE IS IN JESUS.  WONDER IN HIS FAVOR, LOVE, MERCY, AND GRACE.

God  is able to keep you from slipping and falling away, and to bring you,  sinless and perfect, into his glorious presence with mighty shouts of  everlasting joy - Jude 1:24.  For this great God is our God forever and  ever.  He will be our guide until we die - Psalm 119:73.  


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