TOP FIVE PERSONALITY TYPES YOU DO NOT WANT TO MARRY...

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TOP FIVE PERSONALITY TYPES YOU DON'T WANT TO DATE, NOR MARRY

By Synthia Esther

May 9, 2015.  Update: Aug. 5, 2021.

Lets  face it, dating, relating, and marriage, is a subject matter that is  complex, and often perplexing.  The Bible is clear about not being  unequally yoked in a relationship.  But oftentimes, there are many different  opinions as to what that actually  means.  If we follow God's instruction manual,  the Holy Bible, we learn how best to gauge God's will for our life.  For  those who are dating, God forbids premarital sexual relations.  The  body is not meant for sexual immorality but for the Lord... we are to  flee from all such sexual temptation.  All other sins a man commits are  outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body (1  Corinthians 6:13, 18).  

The Apostle Paul states (1  Corinthians 6:9-11), that none of the sexually immoral would inherit the  Kingdom of God.  Those who are born again, being sanctified and  cleansed, are justified by faith in the name of Jesus Christ (1  Corinthians 6:11-12).  True Christians, desire and seek to do God's  will, not their own.  Which means sex outside of the holy bonds of  marriage, being God ordained, is not an option for true believers  (Hebrews 13:4).  True love waits, is not the only fact finding measure  God instructs us to seek in being equally yoked with a mate.  

Common  sense is a virtue God gives us, as we grow to depend on His word for  guidance, knowledge, wisdom, and understanding (Proverbs 2).  Natural  discernment and spiritual discernment being two very different matters.   We are to test the spirits, whether they are of God (1 John 4:1).  

God  gives us wisdom and protection to do so when we seek Him first, in  righteousness.  Most important is to look at ourselves, the person in  the mirror, seeking and allowing self-introspective and the Holy  Spirit's conviction, to change us.   How can you say to your brother,  Let me remove the speck from your eye; and look at the plank that is in  your own eye?  Hypocrite!  First remove the plank from your own eye, and  then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye  (Matthew 7:4-5).  

The following is my top five list of the  most common personality types (some people may show combined traits), I  have encountered in life, both personally and in mentoring, counseling  others, that reflect a lack of God inspired, spiritual conviction.  

 Number Five:  "I Love You, I Need You, but let me serve God my way..."

This  is the person who thinks they define who God is,  and what, when,  where, God is allowed into their life.   They may claim to believe and  know God, Jesus Christ, yet deny and refuse to follow His word, which is  God (John 1:1).  If a person says they are a Christian, and yet does  not seek to study, learn, and grow, by the instruction of God's Holy  Word, then this is a person who claims to be "spiritual" without God.    If the word of God does not come first in a believer's life, their  world, and your world, will come tumbling down, if you allow yourself to  become involved.   

Number Four:  "Whatever you want just don't spoil the moment...."

This  is a person who desires a relationship to feel the thrill of love and  just be happy.  The "just want to have fun" type, is usually very  affectionate, and appealing.  They like to kindle romance, and enjoy  intimate pleasure.  Lots of kissing, holding hands, back and neck rubs,  cuddling, laughing, and sex with no commitment makes them feel wanted  and attractive, which is a natural ego boast.  They can date you for  years, use you (your body, time, and money) until someone else they  think is better, comes along.  This one-up person so idolizes physical  love, romance, and fun, that they often juggle multiple relationships at  the same time.  They will often go on dating sites incognito, posting  photos while wearing hats and sunglasses (many have been caught doing  this) .  

They will make you think they adore you whispering  sweet thoughts (nothings) in your ear, while in your arms, yet suddenly  vanish, dumping you without hesitation.  Like a leaf blowing in the  wind, they are very fickle.  They may fall far short in real life often  having passive-aggressive personality defects that can drive you up a  wall.  They often procrastinate, are late, unorganized, disorderly, and  disheveled. 

 They have a habit of not calling, nor doing, what they say  they will do.  You can kiss all that romance good-bye if your always  having to be a parent figure to someone else or striving to make sense  of this person's conflicting signals.  No one can complete us, except  God!  Those who pay to gain vain idols forsake the hope of God's  steadfast love - (Jonah 2:8).   Our "yes should mean yes" and our "no  should mean no" (Matthew 5:37; James 5:12).  You will be left feeling  inadequate, with a great loss of self esteem, if you allow this "sweep  you off your feet". all talk and no walk, immature person into your  life.  

Number Three: "Let me handle this..."

The  "Let me handle this..." person , is a control freak.  They take charge,  seem to have all the right answers to your questions, problems, and are  not shy in telling you so.  This "know it all" is one who most often  refuses to admit their wrong.   The Adam blames Eve, it's all your fault  person, will usually blame you for their problems.  This defense  mechanism is called, "Projection", in psychology terminology. 

 We all  make mistakes.  God desires that we integrate our faith by seeking to  learn from our mistakes, not shove them under a rug.  Self introspection  is a virtue not a vice.  Though we may toss the dice it is God who  determines the outcome (Proverbs 16:33).  When we give God complete  control of our life, (and no other), we allow Him to cause all things to  work out for our good (Romans 8:28).   When you allow another person  complete control of your life, it is "you" who will suffer a life that's  out of control.

Number Two: "Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde..."

Mood  swings and flings of the heart, a master of deception, and a habitual  liar, coincide within a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde personality type.   This  person may be suffering mental health issues, and need to take their  medication.  Mental health issues aside, an active addict will also show  signs of this intense personality type.  Our main ministry website:  www.synthiaesther.com / covers the addition subject matter in great  detail.  The bible calls this spiritual sin split of the mind defect,  being "double minded" (James 1:18).  

Ephesians 4:22-24, tells us to get  put off the old man when serving God, as we cannot serve two masters  (Romans 6:11-18).   Those in relationship with a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde  personality type, most often feel a lack of peace, suffer self doubt,  and confusion.  

Number One: "Who needs God when you have me..."

The  god or goddess personality type, believes "who needs God when you have  me?"  They are usually successful in life, or make sure they appear to  be.  As long as you provide constant attention and reinforcement of  their ego and status, you are tolerated.  These narcissistic personalty  disorder (NPD) types are very dangerous.  At the core of the NPD's heart  is "grandiosity and fantasy", the need to be admired, without conscious  empathy for others.  They will kick a dog when they are down and dying,  laughing while watching the abused animal anguish in pain.  

They often  come from a childhood background where they were the apple of at least  "one" parents eye (sometimes referred to as "the golden, favored  child"), who could do no wrong.  

Their patronizing, disdaining  attitudes are often masked in public life, and like a slick politician  with great sound bites, they can be very convincing.  Privately, they  show their true colors, as their mask comes off and their criminal  double life rears its ugly head.  Exploitation of others serve their  cause, and seal the fate of those whom they meet that might cause them  problems.  

They deal in revenge, plain and simple.  These megalomaniacs  of extreme, exaggerated egocentrism, will always hold their power,  prestige, and vanity, above all others, even God.  For an in-depth  educational review of the NPD personality type visit  the titled page: "The Narcissist's Evil Agenda of Mastery and Control".  If  you desire to read about a few of these personality types who have made  the news visit: www.xxxhisway.com .    If you allow a dangerous NPD  person into your life, you will suffer a price only the grace of God can  heal.  

Always seek the spiritual discernment of God, when making life decisions...

The  Holy Spirit of God, is our helper and advocate in life, teaching and  equipping us with emotional and spiritual intelligence, and the seeds of  spiritual discernment (John 14:26).  Seek God's will, word, and ways,  ask for His wisdom in all matters (dating, relating, and marriage  included), which is given freely to those who are sincerely following  Him (Proverbs 2).  In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct  your paths (Proverbs 3:6).

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