1 JOHN 4:8, WHOEVER DOES NOT LOVE DOES NOT KNOW GOD...
GOD, LOVE, AND SEX: "GOD CREATED SEX, AND SEX IS GOOD WHEN EXPERIENCED GOD'S WAY" - (Hebrews 13:4; Proverbs 18:22)
By Synthia Esther
Many people whose past is filled with pain and sorrow, and a life that has been difficult to cope with and endure, have deep seated emotional issues that need to heal. While there are those who shout, "Lets make love, not war!". One must remember, there are serious, spiritual, emotional, and physical consequences when having causal sex.
Does sex help erase stress and anxiety, easing problems away? For some it does, as sin is always fun for a season. However, within the spiritual realms, nothing could be further from the truth. Satan wants you to have all the causal sex you want! God wants us to refrain, and control our desires, uniting in intimate sexual union, as one man (husband), with one woman (his wife).
As it is often said, Men look for sex and find love. Women looking to be loved, often have sex. Sex used to satisfy the emotional needs within one's heart, will always fall short in providing the true love the soul and spirit craves. While all other sins a man or woman commits are outside his body, those who sin sexually, sin against their own body (1 Corinthians 6:9-10).
Venereal disease being one such result. Abortion, illegitimate pregnancies and unwanted births, to name other physical consequences. The emotional consequences are vast. Shattered hearts, and depression can bring about a download of spiritual oppression for those caught in the vice of personal rejection after having sexual intercourse with a sex partner. Such soul ties bind up the mind, will, and emotions, into a deep pit of despair. Each rejection felt, like a slow drip torture of suffering, until the dam breaks.
I know one woman who personally got involved sexually with a very self-centered man, and realizing her mistake, severed her relationship. A few days latter, after his constant courting and her repeated rejection, the young man called her to his home, to hear him out. He promised if she listened to what he had to say, he would never bother her again. She reluctantly complied with his requests. He talked about how much he loved her, could not bare to live without her, pulled out a loaded gun, and killed himself.
Her emergency 911 call and the urgent medical attention he received, did not save his life. I counseled this young lady for several years, as friend and mentor. This is not the only such isolated case I have given counsel concerning the sexual love and rejection - suicide link.
Rejection after having had sex with someone is not uncommon. Sex has become a social activity for many, without strings attached. Friends with benefits, being one such claim. Some sexual partners are up-front about their goals. One night stands when mutually agreed upon, being more common as societies culture morals have continued to decline. Yet, in the secret depths of the soul, the desire to be loved remains. The thrill of the love bite, calls. When the false sense of "Hot Sex Now" wanes, and the high of sexual conquests fail, it can often lead one to feel like an Alien in this world. Many feeling abandoned, alone, unloved, confused and uncertain, filled with remorse, sorrow, and pain.
God did not create us to procreate like animals. Humans are the only creatures created by God, that face each other when in the intimate, missionary position of having sex and making love. Such sexual intimacy is a gift, filled with spiritual wonder. Sex outside of God's will and plan (the Holy bonds of marriage), creates a thirst for soul satisfaction, that no one person seems to able to fill. In the absence of any semblance of love, and overwhelming feelings of regret, sins course is destructive, leaving vast depression in its wake.
Many people build a wall around their heart keeping at a distance all those who attempt to open the gate, or climb the wall to get to their inner court of feelings, emotions, intimate needs, and desires. True love waits, says God, and for a good reason - (1 Corinthians 7). Guard your heart, follow the way of Christ, and be blessed.
God sent me to tell you, He Loves You! - John 3:16-17. He wants to give you a life filled with hope and a future - Jere. 29:11. When you give your relationships and sex life to Jesus Christ, and seek His word, will, and ways, you will grow to love the spiritual things of God more than the physical, fleeting thrill of sexual temptation. In one word, you will know "love".
As you grow to feel, and experience the joy of God's true eternal "love", for the first time in your life. For the Love of God, is love beyond measure. For God is Love (1 John 4:8; 16). A love that is unconditional, limitless, and liberating (Matthew 28:20). He loved us while we were still sinners (Romans 3:4; 5:8; John 3:16-17). Your true "soul mate" in this life, is Jesus Christ! Seek Him today, while He may be found, for tomorrow may be too late.
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